Showing posts with label Holidays. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Holidays. Show all posts

Friday, December 25, 2015

Merry Christmas! And the winner is......

Wishing you a Merry Christmas!
May the New Year bring joy, laughter and good health to you and your family!
 


And the winner of the black 2016 Passion Planner (size: compact) is.........
STEPHANIE B.
 
Congratulations, Stephanie!  I will be contacting you shortly to arrange for delivery of the prize package.
 
 
Thank you to everyone who entered the drawing, shared the post and liked my page.  I am so happy that all of you participated.  Thank you for your support.  Look for updates  and additional prize drawings in the coming year.
 
 
Sincerely,
This is me.....Then
Faunya Estrada


Sunday, December 20, 2015

Christmas Gifts for an 18-Month Old Girl

 
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Meet Selah.  She is 18 months old and one of the most loving, beautiful, dramatic, silly and intelligent little girls that I have ever met.  She is also my daughter (No, I am not biased). 


Christmas is coming up and I am so excited about how she will react when she opens her gifts.  We brought her gifts for Christmas last year, but she was too young to really understand what was going on.  This year is the first year that she will 'really' be able to understand that she is getting something new and this year she has a better idea of what she does/does not like.

Firstly, I would like to point out that we have two family traditions that my husband and I have been doing ever since we've been married (5 years). 

Tradition #1: We always buy each other pajamas, wrap them and put them under the tree or wherever we are storing our gifts for that particular year.  On Christmas Eve we gather around the 'tree,' open the gift and put it on before bed.

Tradition #2: We also buy each other a book that we think the other person would enjoy or benefit from, wrap them and put them under the 'tree.'  This gift is also opened on Christmas Eve.

* Tradition # 2 is new and this is something that we just instituted last year.  We each buy each other a gift and then we buy Selah's gifts together.


If you have read any of my previous blogs on preparing for the holiday, then you know that we have a holiday spending budget.  The dollar amount saved for Selah's gifts is $100. 

GIFT #1
Elmo Play All Day
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Thus far, we have spent $40 on the Elmo Play All Day.  This toy is regularly priced at $59.99, but is currently $45.99 on Amazon.com.  We purchased her toy from ShopRite on Black Friday.  Elmo Play All Day is a plush cuddly toy, featuring 8 games/activities and 150+ responses.  Selah is obsessed with Elmo, as is most toddlers her age, so I know that she will LOOOVE this toy.

GIFT #2

Melissa & Doug Jumbo Triangular Crayons
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Melissa & Doug Jumbo Coloring Pad
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Selah absolutely loves to write.  She writes in coloring books.  She writes in regular books.  She writes on cardboard and she writes on the floor.  She writes on skin and she writes on walls.  It's only natural that we would choose to get her a) Melissa & Doug Jumbo Triangular Crayons and b) Melissa & Doug Jumbo Coloring Book.  Both products cost a little under $5 each on Amazon.

GIFT #3
Pajamas: We haven't picked out the exact pajamas we will get her yet, so I don't have much detail available.  However, I was in Gymboree earlier today and they had really cute pajama sets on sale. (Click on Gymboree link to receive 25% off your first order.)

GIFT #4
Gift #4 is up in the air.  Assuming the pajamas cost between $10-$20, we have approximately $30-$40 left to spend on Selah's Christmas gifts. 

Since her ears are not pierced, I am considering a bracelet.  However, when I mentioned it to her dad, he didn't seem that enthused.

We are also considering a learning tablet.  Since she loves the iPad and our cellphone, I would love to get her a tablet specifically designed to increase her intellectual ability.  However, we don't know if we'd be able to find a quality tablet for the price range mentioned above.

Clothing, toys or extra books are always an option, if we can't figure out anything else.  I also like the idea of spending money on 'an experience' rather than material things.  Only time will tell.....and suggestions are more than welcome!

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- Elmo Play All Day
- Melissa & Doug Jumbo Triangular Crayons
- Melissa & Doug Jumbo Coloring Pad
- Gymboree (Click on link to receive 25% off your first order.)

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Saturday, November 28, 2015

My 7-Step Holiday Spending Strategy

MY 7-STEP HOLIDAY SPENDING STRATEGY
 
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 This year, we decided to come up with a spending strategy for the holidays.  So far, we have had one hiccup in our planning......we should've planned to have all holiday funds available by Black Friday.  I will admit, my planning assumed that we would not need any holiday spending money until December.  This left us without a spending plan when we found great deals during Black Friday.  We ended up spending our own "fun" money and unaccounted for joint money.  No bueno!
 
Aside from the one misstep above, I do believe our holiday shopping plan will run smoothly for the remainder of the year.
 
Rule #1: No going into debt for gifts.  If we don't have the cash saved, we don't buy.  Period.

Now, I present to you "My 7-Step Holiday Spending Strategy."



STEP 1: Make a budget and savings plan
We decided on a $500 budget and started a SmartyPig account to save the $500 over time.  The savings goal was started in October.  Next year, we will start planning a little earlier.
* Please note that this $500 budget does not include what my husband and I will spend on each other's gifts.  Our gifts to one another does not come out of our joint banking account, but rather is purchased with our own "fun" money that we receive bi-monthly.

STEP 2: Finalize your holiday list and categorize/prioritize
We created a list of everyone we wanted to buy gifts for and assigned each person a maximum dollar amount that we would be willing to spend.  We discussed possible gifts for each person.  For the record, we set Selah's (our daughter) budget at $100.  We also set our budget for holiday cards at $100.  This leaves about $300 for others.

STEP 3: Redeem points in the form of gift cards (credit card, Ebates, uPromise)
I went to all of my online credit card accounts and rebate accounts to redeem any rewards or money that I had accrued over the past year.  I was able to redeem a $25 Gap gift card with my Citi Thank You points, which were accrued over the past year for using my various Citibank accounts.  Gift cards and money redemptions can be used in addition to the $500 we budgeted.

STEP 4: Strategically place money in Smarty Pig account
At the point when we made our budget in October, we started a SmartyPig savings goal and immediately funded the first $100 into that account.  The plan was to put additional money in on a regular basis, but we got an old tax refund in the mail, which allowed us to not have the burden of having to save money out of our regular monthly payroll.

STEP 5:  Redeem SmartyPig money in the form of transferred cash and strategically selected gift cards
This is the step I am at now.  Unfortunately, I didn't think to redeem the money in our SmartyPig account in time for Black Friday, so we ended up having to spend our own cash or use the joint account when we found great deals during Black Friday.  I intend to redeem the money we have saved by the end of next week.

STEP 6: Purchase gifts through websites during sale cycles through websites like eBates or UPromise....using gift cards obtained at a discount through SmartyPig.....while purchasing in-store at locations that provide better deals in-person. 
Side Note: I just found out about a website called "Shopathome.com" that provides similar cash rebates to eBates and UPromise.  Before I purchase anything online, I check all three websites to determine who offers the largest rebate.
SmartyPig allows you to redeem all or portions of your saved fund in the form of discounted gift cards.

STEP 7: Purchase gifts on my credit card that can not be purchased through the gift cards available through SmartyPig and other discount card sites/venues (Card to be paid off in Full)
Self-explanatory

Let me know in the comments if you have developed a holiday spending plan/strategy for your family.  How did that turn out?  Do you use credit cards for holiday shopping or do you only use cash and debit? 

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Monday, November 16, 2015

6 Weeks to the Holidays: What will you eat?





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In mid-October, I committed to spending the next 10 Weeks Organizing my Holiday Celebrations with Organize365.com..  Please join me as I go through this challenge and feel free to follow the steps, as well.
I will start each week’s challenge on a Sunday (oops…..I’m a little late again) and the challenge will end on Saturday, December 26th.
 
Last week, we discussed what we are doing for the holidays.  It's still not completely decided, but we've agreed on some things.
~ Thanksgiving at our place.
~ We will participate in our typical Christmas Eve traditions and have added a new tradition to the mix.  Our Christmas Eve traditions include:
1) We buy each other pajamas to be opened and worn on Christmas Eve
2) We buy each other a book to be opened on Christmas Eve
3) *new tradition*  We buy a gift for the house that can be enjoyed by all of us and open it on Christmas Eve.
~ Christmas Day is undecided, but likely will spend it at home


This week, we decide on what we will eat.
One thing is for sure.  We will have a turkey for Thanksgiving.  I believe we have a little under $60 to spend between now and Thanksgiving to earn a free turkey at ShopRite.
 
Christmas dinner is undecided, but we will discuss it, this week.
 
How about you?  What will you be cooking for the holidays?  Do you have any food traditions that you automatically know that you will have each year?
 

Wednesday, November 11, 2015

7 Weeks to the Holidays: What are you going to do?



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In mid-October, I committed to spending the next 10 Weeks Organizing my Holiday Celebrations with Organize365.com..  Please join me as I go through this challenge and feel free to follow the steps, as well.
I will start each week’s challenge on a Sunday (oops…..I’m a little late again) and the challenge will end on Saturday, December 26th.

Last week we decided if we would send out cards.  The plan is to send out cards.  I sent my husband a link to Minted last week, so that we can agree on a design.  I used Minted for my daughter's birth announcement cards, last year, and they were absolutely stunning.  The cards are not as cheap as Shutterfly*, but the quality is totally worth it.  Either we will use some of the pictures we took this past Spring with our favorite family photographer (Photography by Jen Davis), we will use one of Selah's school pictures (that she's actually taking today) or we will be getting pictures taken specifically for the purpose of the Christmas/ Holiday cards.

Beginning today (well.....Sunday actually), there are 7 Weeks to Organizing Your Holiday Celebrations and the task for the week is to decide what we want to do.
 
 
The things we will be discussing are:
1) Where will we be spending Thanksgiving, Christmas Eve, Christmas Day and the weekend after Christmas?
2) What foods do we want to make and which dishes will we request that others provide?
3) What about Christmas activities?  Tree lighting ceremony?  Sesame Place?
4) What about decorations?  Do we want a Christmas tree?  Real or fake?  Do we want a wreath for the door?  Any new ornaments?
 
So how about you? Are you into Holiday Planning?  Have you thought about what you will eat, where you will go and how you will decorate?
 

* Shutterfly is offering 50% off on all cards and 20% off on all photo cards purchased through the links on this page by December 31st, 2015.

Wednesday, October 21, 2015

10 Weeks to Organizing Your Holiday Celebrations

There is one thing that we've wanted to do ever since we got married......and even more so since we've had a baby.  We are officially a total family now, so I think it's time to start sending out holiday cards, decorating the house and giving to others during the holidays.

I came across a blog that provides a 10 week challenge that helps you plan and organize your end of year holiday season, which I decided to participate in.  Please join me as I go through this challenge and feel free to follow the steps, as well.

Have you had it with holiday stress? Come join me each Friday for the next 10 weeks as I share tips on organizing your holiday celebrations. | Organize 365
 
*For more information, visit Organize 365 at http://organize365.com/organizing-your-holiday-celebrations/
 
 
If this post begins week 10 and I start all following weeks on Sunday, we can actually complete the final week from December 20th -26th.  Perfect!
 
Hopefully, we'll actually be able to decorate the house and send out Christmas cards this year!